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Fact or Friction - January 2019 - Reader Submissions

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Man of My Dreams To this day, my friends still don’t believe this really happened to me. I was a Senior in college when the first instance occurred. I’d had a long day of classes and planned on returning to my dorm and turning in early to catch up on some much needed rest. I got in the shower and when I came out, I laid across my bed in my towel. Not long after, I was asleep. I was awakened by what I can only describe as warm breathing on my neck. I knew good and well I hadn’t let anyone spend the night with me, so at first, it freaked me out in a major way. I didn’t want to open my eyes either, I was just too afraid of what or who I might see when I did. My heart was racing and I trembled a bit as I slowly opened my eyes. To my surprise, there was a very handsome, caramel skinned, shirtless man with an athletic tone and short, dark, wavy hair lying next to me. He didn’t appear to be a creep or anything like that. It’s funny because I thought I recognized him from somewhere, bu...

Dear Miz Mayhem - January 2019 - by Miz Mayhem

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GOT QUESTIONS ABOUT BDSM, FETISHES & OR KINKS? MIZ MAYHEM’S GOT THE ANSWERS! *Dear Miz Mayhem, I’ve been to a number of parties and I can’t seem to be able to meet somebody who is interested in playing with me. I don’t understand this as I thought these parties were all about playing, aren’t they? - Marco,  Livonia, MI Dear Marco, I’m not exactly sure what your approach may be as far as meeting people. In my experiences, I have found that the best way to meet people and have opportunities to play with them starts with getting to know them. Get out at other kink related gatherings and meet people who share the same interests that you do. Don’t push or force yourself onto others. As trust is a huge factor in these type of dynamics, whether serious or casual, it is ultimately up to you to earn that trust.  From there, you may have more luck in finding play partners and play scenes at future events. Best of luck to you! ~Miz Mayhem __________________________...

Friction Movie Review - January 2019 - by Michelle Kisner

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The House That Jack Built The House That Jack Built (2018) became notorious immediately as it had nearly a hundred walkouts when it premiered at the Cannes Film Festival. Lars von Trier isn’t new to controversy, in fact he invites it and relishes in it. He is a provocateur for better or worse and the transgressive themes that run through his filmography have alienated him from many cinephiles. Does he hate women? Is he a nihilist? Does he hate himself? These questions are often asked but rarely answered by the man himself. He speaks through his films. So that brings us to his newest film, an examination of a serial killer named Jack (Matt Dillon). Jack is a sociopath and spends his time randomly murdering people and stashing them in a giant walk-in deep freezer that he owns. The narrative is divided into five “incidents” where Jack reminisces about different individuals he has killed and the circumstances surrounding them. These vignettes are presented almost documentary style ...

Friction Game Review - January 2019 - by @JamarSoWavy

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What’s up Red Dead Redemption 2 fans?? Well the wait is finally over and I’m here to give my thoughts on the long awaited game. I don’t know where to start because it’s so many things in this game i can talk about so I’m gonna start off saying this is most definitely the game of the year leading into 2019!!! So when you first load up the game up you get the nostalgic feel which leads up to the graphics and so on. I love the fact how detailed it is when you create your player for the game it would have been a bonus if they did the face scan feature but that’s not a deal breaker you can pretty much create your player to look like you with the detail they have in the game from nose adjustments to skin coloration and etc. Now let’s get into the game play / story mode now it starts off calm and then it gets intense because of the things you have to do far as the up keep or your horse and looting others trying to find money by robbing people then you become wanted and it can get frust...

Black Lace Diaries - Entry Four - by JeDonna Mathis

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Entry Four: “My New Playmate is My Roommate”      Watching him walk around the house in his towel was turning me on. I didn’t want to look at him like that but damn...I couldn’t help the fact that he had my pussy throbbing. I slipped deep into a trance and he caught me looking at him like a lioness to her prey. He smiled and headed upstairs. I wanted to just get up and follow him but that would’ve been a tad too much.      See, Camren was my roommate. He had just moved in a few months prior. I had fell on hard times and he came along just in time. He was such a responsible, respectful, handsome man. He hadn’t missed a payment yet and also helped with extra. I had never seen him bring anyone back home from his long nights of partying either. He never gave me a vibe that he was into men either.      I couldn’t understand what it was about him that was calling my attention so tough.     Once I noticed the time, I realized...

Sex Position of the Month - January 2019 - by Amber Jones

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The Drill Much like the Deck Chair, only with much less wiggle room, the Drill is a tight, pounding machine. The woman lies on her back while the man lies on top of her. The woman wraps her legs around the man’s back in order to keep everything tight. Now the man drills away, stimulating her G-Spot and himself.

Sex Toy Review - January 2019 - by Amber Jones

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Body Safe Hot Wax Candle Have you ever felt like you wanted to introduce BDSM into your bedroom? Well the Fever Hot Wax Candle is a wonderful starter product to get the ball rolling.  Make your fantasies come to life with this body-safe hot wax candle! Whether you are experimenting with BDSM play or indulging in a warm, sensual massage, this lightly scented candle will set the mood and provide an unforgettable experience. Simply light the wick and let the wax melt. The low melting point makes for quick work and also keeps the wax cool enough to not burn your skin. When you are satisfied with the amount of wax, blow out the wick and pour the moisturizing wax from 3 feet above your lovers body. If you are not new to this but true to this and want to challenge your partner you are able to pour at a lower distance. Just make sure you have a safe word. You will both be delighted by the sensations this candle will induce.   Overall I give this candle a 9. The option o...

Naughty News - January 2019

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Iowa Man Arrested for Jacking It In Uber An Iowa man was arrested on November 27th for allegedly jacking himself off in an Uber car after telling the driver that he liked to masturbate in front of Uber drivers, according to police reports. 27 year old Christopher Jensen was charged with a serious misdemeanor in connection with an incident several months ago in Iowa City. Police reported that Jensen called for an Uber around 4:45 AM and got into the front seat when the vehicle arrived. During the ride, Jensen removed his penis from his pants and started jacking off in front of the driver. After explaining that he enjoyed it so much, Jensen allegedly asked the driver, “Do you want to touch it?” The Uber driver stopped the car and told Jensen to get out. Investigators, who identified Jensen through Uber records, noted that the suspect admitted to taking an Uber but also claimed that he did not remember masturbating in the cab. Jensen was released from the Johnson County jail ...

Generational Victim Syndrome; Growing Up Pink - by Starla Knight

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Recently, a six part documentary involving the R&B superstar, R. Kelly, and his alleged sexual trysts with minors premiered on the Lifetime network. Some of the victims also allege that he physically, emotionally and sexually abused them. Some people don’t know who or what to believe and other spectators have a lot to say about Kelly’s alleged inappropriate actions. The premiere of ‘Surviving R. Kelly’ has sparked a very controversial, social media frenzy. While many are discussing the details of the episode, others are having deeper conversations. The most interesting being, what I like to call, Generational Victim Syndrome. Generational Victim Syndrome refers to growing up within a family where underage girls who fall victim to sexual abuse, are often blamed for the tragic incident. They are accused of being ‘fast’ or ‘acting grown’, and then told that their actions caused their abuser to abuse them. Hold the eyerolling until the end of the column, guys. In the same...

Pleasure Talk with Amber - December 2018 - by Amber Jones

“Oh, my God, Becky, look at her butt  It is so big, she looks like One of those rap guys’ girlfriends But, ya know, who understands those rap guys?  They only talk to her, because,  She looks like a total prostitute, ‘kay?  I mean, her butt, is just so big  I can’t believe it’s just so round, it’s like out there I mean gross, look She’s just so, black.” For those who may not be familiar with the dialogue at the beginning of this article, let me bring you up to speed a little. In 1992, there was a rapper by the name of Sir Mix-a-Lot who released a song by the name of “Baby Got Back”. It was almost like the anthem for women with hips, thick thighs, big butts, hell any type of curve that was shunned in the media at that time. Although this song made it nationally known that women in the black community were proud to be thicker than women of other nationalities, plus-sized women were still unable to open a magazine or see models on the runway that looked...

Dear Miz Mayhem - December 2018 - by Miz Mayhem

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GOT QUESTIONS ABOUT BDSM, FETISHES & OR KINKS? MIZ MAYHEM’S GOT THE ANSWERS! Miz Mayhem knows that BDSM can be perhaps, overwhelming or a sensory max overload, when we first hop on board that new train. There are so many fetishes and kinks to discover! So many new things to explore! New people. New friends. New! New New! We’re like kids in a classroom! There are so many questions that you may have. While the internet is a wealth of information, THIS is the place to ask them! We were ALL once new and we will never stop having curiosities, never stop having questions. No matter what your interests are, no matter how long you’ve been living your kink, there will always be something to learn. While there are many avenues to be curious about, its always the safest and best practice to do your own research, as well. Seek your BDSM/Kink education thru available resources, so that you hold the power and capability to enhance your own journey into this wonderful thing we call the L...

Friction Movie Review - December 2018 - by Michelle Kisner

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IN THE MOUTH OF MADNESS Original release date: February 3, 1995 Rating: R Genre: Fantasy Director: John Carpenter Running time: 95 mins In individuals, insanity is rare--but in groups, parties, nations, and epochs, it is the rule. --Friedrich Nietzsche In the Mouth of Madness (1994) is John Carpenter’s take on Lovecraftian style horror and is also imbued with his patented sardonic sense of humor. It’s a wonderful piece of meta fiction that explores the concept of what truly makes one insane. If a delusion is shared by enough people does it become the new reality? We follow an insurance investigator named John Trent (Sam Neill) who takes on a case with a book publishing house. It seems they have lost their cash cow, popular horror novelist Sutter Cane (Jurgen Prochnow) who has also taken his latest manuscript with him. Apparently, Cane’s books cause strange symptoms in some of his readers: paranoia, memory loss, and disorientation. John is teamed up with Cane’s editor, ...

Friction Game Review - December 2018 - by Ericca M.

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Resident Evil: Dead Aim Okay ladies and gents, here we are in the glorious Christmas season! In the spirit of all things Christmas, I’m reviewing a video game that I received as a gift back when I was a teenager: Resident Evil: Dead Aim. In all fairness, my Mom was well aware of me and my siblings love for the Resident Evil series. We’d spend countless nights losing sleep because we were too busy trying to beat whatever horrendous boss we would come across. I can also remember throwing the control whenever I’d become frustrated with dying. There’s only so many times you can see “You Died” spelled out in blood before you temporarily lose your sanity. Now back to Dead Aim. Dead Aim was one of those parts to the Resident Evil series that wasn’t very popular nor was it promoted as heavily as the first, or others in the series like Resident Evil 5 or Code Veronica X. The game was released on February 13, 2003 by Capcom for the Playstation 2 console and received some pretty poor rev...

Music to Scene to - by MyBlueOblivion

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MyBlueOblivion’s BDSM Playlist A new addition to Friction Magazine, Music To Scene To, is a monthly compilation of songs that incorporates something more than just background noise into your BDSM scenes. There is a rhythm, an energy and the always delightful mind fucks held within the haunting, yet, fond memories of that scene, long afterwards. Music can add so much to the ambiance and atmosphere of any activity but when it comes to BDSM scenes, music makes all the difference. No matter what side of that D/s or T/b SLASH, you’re on, at that time, the riffs, melodies and chords have the surprisingly powerful ability to strike something deeper, even more primal, within us. It can drive us further into that hedonistic head space we crave. When we randomly or even purposely hear this music, anytime after a great scene, we find, not only do we want to come back to those moments that are oh, so delicious, we desire to create new ones! Our first, ever, Music To Scene To generously comes f...

Black Lace Diaries - Entry Three - by JeDonna Mathis

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Entry Three: “Jingle Bell Rock” 'Twas the night before Christmas when it all went down. My man is coming home from a two week business trip from out of town. I danced around the house as I got everything set up for us. Cooked his favorite meal. A big juicy steak, homemade macaroni and cheese, and grilled asparagus. I had the Hennessy on the ice, with rose petals leading from the front door greeting him at every entry of the house. I put on a kinky Mrs. Claus outfit, put on my long lace wig,  and sprayed my Gucci perfume. My body was so ready for his loving.  I awaited his arrival but he didn’t show. After calling him for the third time to see what the delay was, I found out that they may have canceled his flight. The anticipation for him to be there with me was killing me. I was missing him so much. It was Christmas Eve and I might have had to spend it alone. My hormones were raging heavy and I wanted him there with me. I had already decorated the house and put up the tr...

Sex Position of the Month - December 2018 - by Amber Jones

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The Jackhammer The jackhammer allows great control from both partners. The man stands upright with his legs slightly apart. The woman then sits down while facing away and leaning backwards. Now the man can squat up and down, while the woman has access to his entire lower body.

Sex Toy Review - December 2018 - by Amber Jones

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Oralee 5 Mode Oral Sex Vibe This tiny vibe is a unique and thrilling way to add extra stimulation to your oral activities! Ideal for men and women! This toy will add that extra umph to your fellatio skills, enough to knock the socks off of your partner, and give you bragging rights as the best head giver! It can be slipped into the corner of the mouth, to thrill your partner as you lick and suck. Just imagine your skills increased by 100%. Can you say instant orgasm alert, because that is exactly what will happen when you go down on your partner with this. The toy is perfectly shaped for comfort, and enhanced pleasure. And what makes it even better is the fact that it is battery free and has 5 decadent vibration modes. A USB cable is included for on the go or at-home charging. The premium silicone material is odorless and tasteless and sterilizes easily. Waterproof and travel friendly, you will want to take this oral enhancing device everywhere! For the price and power, I have to g...