Pleasure Talk with Amber - November 2018 - by Amber Jones
Let’s talk! I mean, I know that we talk every month, but I mean let’s talk talk! I feel the need to continue the conversation that we started last month about our Yoni’s (pussy). I know last month we discussed Yoni Steams (I hope you all tried it by the way). But I feel the need to bring more attention to our Yoni and the power that it holds.
Have you ever just stopped to think about the amazing things that the Vagina can do? It has the ability to push out babies, it has the ability to have multiple orgasms, based on your ability to control your Kegels you can tighten and loosen your vaginal muscles on command. OOOOHHHH OOOHHHH OOOHHHH don’t forget about the most mysterious thing that our Yoni is capable of doing………….. SQUIRTNG!!!!!!!!!
Yes Ladies, squirting is a very natural, normal, and real thing that our bodies are able to do. I once heard that all women are able to squirt but I always questioned how true that statement was because I myself had not ever personally experienced it. I won’t lie, all of the negativity and controversy surrounding it also made me afraid to actually experience it. I almost felt ashamed for not being able to do it, but at the same token, felt ashamed for even wanting to. If that makes sense.
There have been so many questions surrounding the topic of squirting. For example, is squirting something that only happens in porn? Is squirting the same as female ejaculation? Can you control if you squirt of not? And the million-dollar question………… What the fuck is it?
After my own personal experience and some research, I have managed to answer some of these questions. Before I get into it, I want to say that squirting is absolutely amazing and nothing you should be ashamed, scared, or embarrassed by! Embrace it and own it! If you have not experienced this yet by the hands of yourself or a significant other you need to make that a priority lol. A good way to make this a conversation with your partner is by doing some research on your own. Look into what the G-Spot is, that’s where it all will go down! You will thank me later.
Anywho, my very first-time experiencing squirting you would have thought I was a deer in headlights. Although I knew what was happening I just could not believe it was happening to me. The sensation was something I can’t really put into words, but I felt like I was releasing all of my worries of the world away. I saw fields of sunflower, butterflies, and beautiful waterfalls. As I literally watched this explosion taking place I couldn’t help but high five myself in my own head and say “bitch you did it” lol.
At that moment I was able to answer questions that like many of you, I had. Below are some answers I gathered from my own personal experience and research.
Question #1: Is this something that only takes place in porn?
Answer: Nope because I just did it and I’m a regular smegular chick lol
Question #2: Is Squirting the same as female ejaculation?
Answer: No, although the release is extremely satisfying and intense it is not the same as an orgasm.
Question #3: Can you control if you squirt or not?
Answer: No, you cannot control it. Just like a regular orgasm you have to focus on the goal that you are trying to obtain. Which is squirting. If you feel like something is about to bust let it go. Do not fear what is happening, what it is, how it’s happening or even why, JUST LET IT OUT!
Question #4: Can all women squirt?
Answer: The answer is still one that is uncertain, however, a study that was conducted in the mid 90’s showed that only 6% of women said that they had experienced squirting. Nevertheless, 60% of women had experienced what is considered to be female or vaginal ejaculation (an orgasm).
Question #5 What is it?
Answer: Now from the research that I have done, and according to an article written by Mirel Ketchiff on Shape.com research has found that the fluid that comes from your urethra is in fact urine, whereas female ejaculation has a thicker, more milkier makeup.
Now, after all of the reading and comparing it to my personal experience I found that it does not smell or look like pee (color wise). And this made me more comfortable and proud with my new found talent. At the end of the day it is up to you and your partner on how comfortable you all are with you having this gift (yes, this is a gift and you are very special). And to be honest if this is you and your partner has an issue tell them to take a look in the mirror and self reflect on if they are really able to handle your greatness.
Pleasure Seekers, remember what you are and who you are and that it is always okay to be sexually you. Do not conform, or withhold out of fear. In the end you are only cheating yourself out of a bomb ass sex experience!
Your Pleasure Expert,
Amber Jones
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